We are all our own person, so that means we all have an opinion that we are able to voice, but the question is, how do you deliver your opinions on something that may be bothering you. I have had my own hang ups with my delivery and many of my issues may come up when I’m engaging with my significant other. I’ll keep it 100 with you guys, I really hate communicating about issues and I usually will shut down, or go off the handle if the conversation takes a turn for the worse.
Now, I know my way of handling hard conversations may not be the healthiest, and I know I need some work in that area. But I know I’m not the only one who could work on his communication, delivery, or being understanding when I may not like what is being said to me at the time. You see, there may be some cases when the delivery can be perfect, and you will still may get offended. You can be offended because you just don’t feel like hearing what they have to say, and that is not cool at all. We should always be respectful to one another and give the courtesy to the other person because we will want the same thing in return when our turn comes around for us to express ourselves. Especially in regards to our significant others.
For every action, there is a reaction and it’s up to you to respond in LOVE and not allow your emotions to ruin the dialogue between you and the other person. We can use this tool not just in our personal relationships, also in the working environment, or with just dealing with different personalities in our day to day lives. We all should be able to express ourselves and get our point across without being rude. We all should also be mature enough to hear the person out. So lets be mindful on how we handle one another, because the message may not always be delivered in the way that you may think it should, but you can make the delivery special in the way that you respond.